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 Skrg aku tau sih The best way adalah dgn bodo amat Alias dont care Bukan sabar tp bodo amat Jd udh ga pusing lagi Gada kecewa jg Krn udah bodo amat Krn byk hal yg jauh lbh utama utk dpikirin Kaya hobi dan kesukaan diri sendiri Impian2 sendiri Pokoknya self love lah Bnr2 ga ngurus slain diri sendiri dan anak2 Itu lbh damai dan fair sih haha Im so worthed  No one can make me down/ sad And i can make myself take abundant of happiness Bahagia kita yg buat

 I'm thinking about my mother. No, not about her flaws. It's just a different perspective between my mother and me. My mother often complains, saying that none of her children help her. It's easy to conclude that the children must be at fault, and I admit it, especially since I live far from her. But then I look at myself as a mother. I take care of my three children without any help. Even my husband is very busy, so it's truly just me serving him and the children. My thoughts and energy are focused there, especially since my children are still young and not independent yet. It feels like these moments are very long, like changing diapers for the youngest, which feels like doing it hundreds of times over years. So, I think when they become independent and grown up (especially when they're married), it will be my time to be truly free as a mother. But why doesn't my mother feel that way? In her old age, she seems perpetually exhausted and feels unhelped. Why does...

 Berikut adalah beberapa kalimat rayuan yang bisa kamu gunakan untuk suami agar dia memberikan yang istri minta  1. "Sayang, aku tahu kamu bekerja keras untuk keluarga kita. Aku sangat menghargai itu dan ingin kita menikmati hasil jerih payahmu bersama." 2. "Aku suka sekali kalau kita bisa melakukan hal-hal menyenangkan bersama. Bisa nggak kali ini kita mencoba sesuatu yang baru?" 3. "Kamu tahu nggak, aku merasa sangat beruntung punya suami seperti kamu. Kamu selalu bisa membuatku bahagia. Mungkin kali ini kamu bisa memberikan kejutan kecil untukku?" 4. "Aku pengen kita punya lebih banyak momen spesial bersama. Gimana kalau kita rencanakan sesuatu yang seru minggu ini?" 5. "Sayang, aku lihat banyak hal indah yang bisa kita nikmati bersama. Aku yakin sedikit pengeluaran tambahan bisa membuat kita semakin dekat dan bahagia." Gunakan kata-kata ini dengan penuh kasih sayang dan jangan lupa untuk mengungkapkan apresiasi atas usaha dan kerja ...

 My mother always complains about my husband. She doesn't like anything he does. Implicitly, my mother says, "How can someone wealthy like him become your husband?" As my husband's wife, I'm obviously in a difficult position. I can't go against my mother, but how? My mother always thinks like that. She thinks that her child's husband should have a character that suits her. But actually, it's me who married my husband, not my mother. It's understandable if my husband's character doesn't suit my mother because my husband is destined for me, not for my mother. But why is this being constantly emphasized? When it's clear that my husband is the one I need. If not with my husband, then with whom? Do I have to be alone? I don't want that.

 Im crying right now As a house wife and full time mom with no helper My kids never get accompanied by other It's really hard to get people for being assistant for me So the problem come when i wanna have umrah My kids should join but no money But when kids not joining us Who will accompanies them? 😭😭😭😭 Why do some people easily label others just because their life paths are different from their own? Why don't they first dig into the causes? Why is their tongue so cruel? If only they knew how difficult my current condition is. Why is the narrative of 'only the chosen ones' continuously echoed and used to label those who are not yet called? Those who are not yet among the beloved ones of Allah. It feels very sad. Very suffocating

 Living with someone dominant and controlling is very exhausting. But I always remember that this is the world we live in. This is the test in my life. For a lifetime, living with people like this. It sometimes feels like screaming. But then I realize, Hey, this is just a test of life. I'm not tested with anything else. So I'm tested with this. So all of this is what God wants. So I just have to be grateful knowing that with a million blessings, I should just be thankful. Being tested like this shouldn't be bargaining.

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